It’s my Xalkori
and I’ll cry if I want to
How boring is a 3-part story? This girl was diagnosed with
lung cancer, she then tested positive for targeted therapy, so she took a pill
daily and all was well. I like to keep things interesting. So my liver
graciously took the time to add some suspense to my story.
After being on Xalkori for 2 weeks, my liver enzyme numbers
spiked (revealed via blood test, AST & ALT numbers for my curious LC
friends out there). My oncologist at St. Joe’s casually said I would need to
stop taking Xalkori for a couple of weeks, but not to worry, this was a common
thing. Um, this was not a casual thing for me. So like a dramatic schoolgirl I
went to the bathroom and cried. All I heard was no Xalkori for a couple of weeks! What the hell is a couple of weeks? 2? 10?
Screw the liver, let’s get crazy with this drug. But it turns out we need our
livers to live. Go figure.
If you painted this scene for me a year ago (me crying in a
bathroom because I wasn’t allowed to take a pill), I’d be extremely confused
and ask if it was some creepy club drug that I was addicted to. (You can tell I
don’t do drugs by the fact that I just called it a “club drug.” I’m embarrassed
for myself.) But I really liked my Xalkori, we were just getting to know each
other.
Let’s take a
moment to mourn
Sensibly, my next question was “how do I get my liver to
calm the hell down?” And here comes my downfall. Under my breath, I mentioned
to my doc how my fever, a few weeks back, started exactly one day after playing
beer pong and drinking champagne with friends. Oops. Now, my dear friend
Alcohol may not be at fault at all, but the poor guy cannot be ruled out as a
contributing factor. Therefore, I will not be drinking alcohol for the next
12ish weeks, maybe longer. Let’s now take a moment to mourn this. Tragic. And I
was one of the few 22-year-olds who knew good beer! I swear. And I was just
starting to really understand wine. Now if there’s a stellar IPA that I have
not tried, you’re damn right that I’m going to take a baby sip of it to offer
my expertise.
But there are perks to ordering shirley temples at a bar.
First, I save money. Second, after my trip to the bay this past weekend, I
realized that going out and dancing and living really was not that different,
if at all.
Still, I appreciate your moment of silence as we say goodbye
to tipsy Corey. And who knows, my liver may relax and welcome the Xalkori, so I may say yes
to wine tasting before I know it.
I miss home
“You don’t know what you had til it’s gone.” God, that’s got
to be one of the worst clichés. But ugh, it’s true! I miss the bay area. I miss
my friends. I miss Bart. I miss clean air. I miss normal temperatures. I miss
fog. I miss real food. I don’t miss hipsters.
This past weekend I went to San Francisco to see all my
babies and had too good of a time. No, literally too good, because now all I
want is to be living on my own in the bay. Don’t get me wrong I love love love
my parents and they truly are a good time, but I do miss my old ways. So I’ve
decided to shape up and start applying for bay area jobs. I want to stay home
for at least the next 3ish months, because 1) I love my parents, 2) I love my
dad’s cooking, 3) I like taking random trips, 4) who actually likes working?,
and 5) I really like City of Hope and my oncologist there. So if I could find a
job that starts around Novemberish and have an apartment lined up in San
Francisco, I’ll be pleased. If anyone wants to work on this task, that’d be
great.
The weekend consisted of running, shopping, laughing, eating,
dancing, and karaoking. Some of you may be wondering what happened to Denver?
What happened was I really like my friends in the bay area, that’s what
happened. (Sorry Lee, love you! Never say never.)
SF pics!
my pretty presidio run
my pretty presidio run #2
Rella's office has a 5-star kitchen. Es not fair. But go Nitro! such a cool work atmosphere.
They'll hate me for putting this picture up, so I did.
Tourists for days!
This world traveller had just flown in from India after a month long trip and guess where her first stop was? Lunch with me! So so sweet. Now keep changing and saving the world.
Cancerlebrities
I got to meet one of my cancerlebrities, Emily (canerlebrity=
cancer+celebrity for you oldies). And now she’s a dear friend. There is nothing
more comforting than someone who knows exactly what you are going through, and without
even having to ask. It also helps that she has a similar attitude and sense of
humor. We have a theory that lung cancer simply looks for positive, happy athletes
and says, “Mmm, yeah she fits the bill.” Really scientific. Harvard call me up
if you want to research this theory.
Emily (Bennett) Taylor is a wonderful, needed advocate and
is the spokesperson for a study that I’m participating in. I think it’ll excite
many of you since the most common question I get is, how did this happen to
you? The Genomics of Young Lung Cancer Study is looking at the potential driving
mutations and causes of lung cancer in people like me. (Put on by the Addario Lung Cancer Medical Institute and USC's Cancer Center.)
Okay, this video of Emily is 2 years
old but it’s hilarious. Enjoy.
And here’s a nice ABC news splice on
the study. Please click on the link and watch it!
Speaking of advocacy I recently got to
do a radio interview at Saddleback College. It was really fun and it started my
relationship with Lung Force (focuses on the increase in lung cancer among
women), which is a part of American Lung Association. I’ll be a Lung Force Hero, and we have a team for their walk/run in November,
team Beastie Girl. I’ll send out more info on this soon.
Oh yeah, I’m on
Xalkori again
Now I realize that the beginning of this blog makes it sound
like I’m still not on Xalkori. But I’m not going back to edit it. The truth is
I am back on it! And I love it. It’s a pretty shitty feeling having cancer and
not doing any form of treatment for it. I’m now on a kinder dosage (200mg twice
a day, rather than 250 mg twice a day), but am saving my old pills in case I
work my way back up to that dosage. I’m drinking a ton of water, exercising,
not drinking, and eating healthy, and don’t foresee my liver getting pissy
again, but I’ll be doing weekly blood tests to watch it.
Buddha Corey
I’m not one for cheesy revelations, but I do have one for
you. A number of people have asked why/
how I’m able to keep positive, because my attitude is pretty much exactly the
same as it was pre-cancer. My typical answer to this question: “I don’t know.”
But now I’ve thought about it more. Some outside factors that likely contribute
include: 1) I’m asymptomatic, 2) my friends and family, 3) I’m healthy and can
exercise, and 4) I’m ROS1 positive (aka we found my driving mutation). Sometimes
I wonder if my mind is in some ways protecting me, as though my PMA, as my mom
calls it, (aka positive mental attitude), is a psychological protector. Who
knows. But my cheesy revelation for the day is that happiness is in a lot of
ways a choice. Some of these choices are big: what your job is, who you hang
out with, whether you are active, etc. But you can also pause for a second and
make a conscious decision within yourself to be happy, at least in that very
moment. I must admit I was thinking about this during a run, so it could have
simply been a runner’s high. And I’m now realizing this is really difficult to
explain in typed words. But you get what I’m saying, right? No, you’re
definitely not, maybe we’ll try again later.
*Dr. Wood Disclaimer:
Depression is not a choice. Mental health problems and chemical imbalance
obviously deserve medical attention and someone can not simply choose that they
disappear.
“Your life looks
so fun!”
That’s probably because it is. Next week I’ll be flying to
Denver for an Epic Experience, a week-long adventure for young adult cancer
thrivers. We will be white water rafting, horse back riding, and! there will be
2 massage therapists there. After, I come home for 2 days and then leave for
Boston. So my liver better stay #$%*^&@ calm! Just kidding, I’ve forgiven the
little guy and we’re on good terms now.
Lastly, again I so appreciate all the lovin’ I’m getting.
And I am aware that it is hard to comment on these blog posts. I don’t even
know how it works.
<3
